Showing posts with label religious freedom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label religious freedom. Show all posts

Friday, June 10, 2011

Olympic Gold Medalist Steps Down Amid Prop. 8 Protests


Long time, no see, huh, readers? Life moves along at a swift pace, but my heart is still with the fight for religious freedom and seeking equality and tolerance for all - not just those in vogue in our ever-complicating world.

Like so.

Yesterday a friend posted this Orange County Register article to Facebook about how Olympic gold medalist - and Latter-day Saint - Peter Vidmar has stepped down from serving as chef de mission for Team USA in the 2012 Olympics amid outcries against his support of Prop. 8.

In the editorial piece, Register editor David Whiting provides a breath of fresh air by maintaining that while he disagrees with Vidmar's stance, he doesn't think that should bar Vidmar from serving in this capacity, one that has nothing to do with marriage, religion or politics.

I have a great deal of respect for Whiting, having worked with him a bit at the Register and read his work over the years, and I really appreciated his viewpoint. To me, this is what tolerance should be. You have your opinion, I have mine, they may be diametrically opposed - but that's okay. We can all respect one another and not let personal beliefs get in the way of public service.

Here's the email I penned to David that I wanted to share with you all. I would've left it as a comment on the article, but the system wouldn't log me in - feel free to add a comment on there as well:

Hi, David -

Just a note regarding your Peter Vidmar article: the name of the LDS Church should always be The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on first reference, Mormon Church or LDS Church on subsequent references. "Latter Day Saints" is incorrect. Not to be nitpicky, but as a Reg alumna, I hate seeing errors go uncorrected. :)

And thanks for your piece, supporting Vidmar despite a differing opinion. I would've left this comment on the piece, but the system wasn't letting me sign in. Anyways, I, too, was involved with Prop. 8 with the LDS Church, and I have seen so many friends be basically blackballed for their participation. One friend was the gallery manager at Jonathan Adler in Newport Beach until the LGBT community threw such a fit that she was axed. It's discriminatory and wrong, and I find it so ironic, coming from a group that preaches "tolerance." It seems like that tolerance only goes one way. Personally, one of my best friends is gay, he's in a great relationship, and I couldn't be happier. I have another gay friend who is engaged and am happy for him to have found a great match. My reason for supporting Prop. 8 has more to do with religious freedoms and rights, something that might seem ancillary and secondary to the freedom to wed. There are so many instances where churches' hands have been forced in the name of "anti-discriminatory" rulings to act contrary to their beliefs, from a Christian church in New Jersey that views homosexuality as a sin being forced to allow gay marriage in its camp's chapel (even though they said the couple could wed anywhere on their site EXCEPT in the chapel, which they felt was inappropriate, seeing as the ceremony diametrically opposed their doctrine) to Catholic Charities in Mass. stopping their adoption services because they couldn't specify that children could only go to heterosexual couples (again, despite homosexuality being against their beliefs) to a Christian doctor being forced to personally treat a lesbian couple with IVF even though she said she was uncomfortable doing so because of her beliefs but would happily have another doctor at the practice help them. The list goes on and on.

When it comes to rights, the only "right" lacking for gay couples is to not have their union legally solemnized. Other than that, they have every right a heterosexual couple does, thanks to great equality laws on the books and the ability to give one's partner power of attorney. Beyond that, it's the social recognition they crave, and they can have a celebration and ceremony without scrubbing every reference to "husband and wife" on the books or altering the education curriculum to promote homosexuality as an equal if not preferable lifestyle, starting with kindergarteners (again, it's happened, I'm not pulling this from thin air). That's my opinion, for what it's worth. Regardless, I do respect and appreciate ALL people for the contributions they bring to the table, and I get tired of being labeled a "religious fanatic" or "bigot" for my viewpoint when I'm one of the most accepting, least discriminatory people out there. My heart goes out to Peter Vidmar for the same. I've had the privilege of meeting him on a handful of occasions and hearing him speak since my teen years. What a phenomenal, kind, big-hearted man! It's a shame that he's being stopped from serving in a way that would benefit the Team USA in the 2012 Games, just as it's a shame to see discrimination in any way, shape or form in the public arena (or private, really, for that matter).

Thanks again for your thoughtful, balanced piece, David. I hope all is well at my much-beloved Register!


Best,
Christa [LAST NAME]
(formerly of [the community papers where I wrote])

PS: Just an observation - the way you refer to the protests on every major intersection during Prop. 8 seems to imply that the protests were against it when, in fact, it was mixed (and more were FOR Prop. 8, if anything). It's a bit misleading. Perhaps interjecting something along the lines of "protests for both sides" would clarify?
Honestly, friends, it is disappointing - albeit not all that surprising - that we're still dealing with this. I don't think it will ever end, frankly, and that's a little harrowing, especially when I was so publicly on the front lines. As the balance leans more and more in favor of gay rights in our anything-goes society - ever-moving away from supporting religion, God, or so many of the foundational American principles I hold dear - we're just going to see this more and more frequently. May we all be able to stand firmly together and leave a record, for God and for our posterity, that we held our ground and did not flinch, no matter what.

Friday, October 31, 2008

This is why.

Today's guest post comes from my ever-insightful cousin Christopher, who posted this on Facebook. It's one of the best letters I've read on the subejct - I re-post with his permission:

I'm voting YES on Proposition 8.

I feel very strongly about this issue, and I'm afraid my position has offended or alienated some of my friends and loved ones, even some that I hold very dear. In many of the things I've read opposing Proposition 8, I've read over and over that anyone who is in favor of this amendment must be motivated by either hate, ignorance, or both. For these reasons, I feel strongly that I need to explain why I believe what I do, and why I'm voting the way I am.

First of all, I hope that anyone who knows me well knows that hate is not a motivation for anything that I do or believe. I don't hate anyone for their lifestyle choices, sexual preference, political views, or any other possible reason - no matter how much I may disagree with them.

Second, I don't believe that I'm ignorant about the issue or what it entails. I've spent long hours deliberating on it and what it would mean if this proposition does or does not pass. I've explored the materials and sites both for and against the proposition. I have friends on both sides of the fence for various reasons, and I respect all of their opinions. After all my time and thought into the issue, to call me ignorant for choosing to vote YES is simply dismissive - it doesn't allow me the privilege to be both intelligent and of a different opinion than your own.

So why am I voting YES on Proposition 8? It's simply because I don't believe that the state of California should recognize same-sex unions as equal to traditional marriage between a man and woman. Let me first be clear - it is very important to me that everyone is allowed all of the same civil rights that I enjoy - regardless of race, gender, or sexual preference. A committed gay couple should be allowed all the same civil rights, liberties and privileges as a married heterosexual couple - and they currently are under California State Law (California Family Code 297.5). Proposition 8 will not change that. All that Proposition 8 is concerned with is what the State defines as "marriage" - whether it is between a man and a woman, or whether it's between any two people, regardless of gender.

To understand why I feel so strongly about this, you need to understand what I believe marriage fundamentally is, and therefore why I believe we cannot change it's definition. I believe that marriage is much more than just a manifestation of love between two people - but that at its most fundamental level, marriage is a commitment between two people to start a family together. While not all marriages result in children, all of the benefits granted by governments to married couples are designed to protect and preserve the institution of the family, and protect the rights of children. In 2006, a commission of the State National Assembly of France, a nation that allows civil unions but not same-sex marriages, cited this same reasoning, stating, "Marriage is not merely the contractual recognition of the love within a couple. It is a framework with rights and obligations conceived in order to welcome the child and provide for his harmonious development". (Read the full transcript here: http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2006_docs/Francesummary.pdf).

I believe that the best way for a child to be raised is in a home with a loving mother and father - this provides the child with the best opportunity to lead a productive and healthy life psychologically, physiologically, and sociologically. The French commission also expressed this, saying "inasmuch as there is absolutely no reason to doubt the educative and emotional qualities of homosexual parents, we do not yet know all the effects on the construction of the adopted child's psychological identity. As long as there is uncertainty, however small, is it not in the best interest of the child to apply the precautionary principle, as is done in other domains?" I understand that there are countless failed heterosexual marriages that lead to less-than-ideal circumstances for children to be raised in, and I'll admit that I'd rather see a child raised by a loving gay couple than an abusive father or absent mother. But the fact remains that the ideal circumstance, as far as we can tell, is that of a loving mother and father in the home. For that reason, I believe it is our place as a society to uphold the ideal, and then as individuals try to live up to it as best we can.

I'm also worried about the effect that not passing Proposition 8 will have on religious liberties in general. If same-sex marriage is considered equal with traditional marriage, then it will have to be treated as equal in every State-sponsored sense - which will have significant effects on religious and educational institutions. Already, religious individuals and institutions are being told they must honor homosexual activities that are contrary to their religion on issues ranging from religious adoption services having to place children with same-sex couples to religious educational institutions being required to house same-sex couples in their dorms (read the NPR article here: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=91486191). Legalizing same-sex marriage is a significant step toward limiting the first-amendment rights of those who, for religious reasons, do not agree with homosexuality.

With all of that said, I am religious and I have a deep faith in a living God. I am very aware that many would call my faith simply ignorance, and I'm sorry if you think so. I believe in the God of the Old and the New Testament, and I believe that he is very much alive and speaking to man today. I believe that God has clearly stated what he defines as marriage, as well as outlined what his plan is for human sexuality (i.e. only between a man and a woman). Therefore, I cannot in good faith say that I believe in the Bible and follow its teachings, and at the same time support same-sex marriage. I've also been told that my denying marriage to same-sex couples is "un-Christian" and intolerant - that Christ himself would want everyone to be able to live in the way that they deem appropriate. In my reading of the New Testament, I cannot find any support for this view from the Savior's life. Jesus loved and served everyone that he met, and preached that we should all do the same. However, not once did he ever excuse anyone in their sins or disobedience - rather he would preach to those he loved and cared about, earnestly hoping that they would change and follow Him. He was the perfect example of loving the sinner and hating the sin. I can only hope to do the same.

I don't know everything. In fact, in the big scheme of things I know very little. But if there really is a God, and He really has made His will known, then I believe our best bet would be to follow His counsel. I really do believe that God has spoken and that by following what He has outlined, we will be better off both as a society and as individuals. Even if you don't agree, I hope that you can understand why I feel the way I do, and why I will be voting YES on Proposition 8.

(Please also read: http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/the-divine-institution-of-marriage).

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com

Monday, October 20, 2008

Responses to Thurston's "Six Consequences... If Prop. 8 Fails"

This fantastic post comes from the bloggers at Keeping Marriage True:

When an issue is as important as marriage, the discourse can easily become emotional, then irrational, and sometimes it goes downhill from there. There is much information being circulated against Proposition 8 that is misleading, erroneous, and downright deceptive. One example is a document that was written by an LDS lawyer named Morris Thurston entitled "Commentary on the Document 'Six Consequences...if Propostion 8 Fails.'"

The "Six Consequences" document, which is of unknown authorship, lists six undesirable outcomes that are likely to happen if Proposition 8 does not receive a majority of the votes on November 4. Thurston's commentary purports to rebut numerous "falsehoods" contained in the document. Because Thurston identifies himself as "an adjunct law professor at BYU Law School," many people who read his commentary assume he knows what he's talking about and that what he writes must be true.

I am a Latter-day Saint attorney, and I studied Thurston's commentary very carefully, researching the accuracy of his statements and assertions to the extent it was possible to do so. I found his commentary to be filled with inaccuracies and mischaracterizations. It asserts a number of fallacious arguments and makes a number of factual statements that are false. I sent Thurston a detailed rebuttal to his commentary.

Since Thurston's commentary has been widely circulated and is showing up on many blogs and Web sites, including those of Prop. 8 opponents, I am posting my rebuttal here. My hope is that people who would otherwise be unaware of the false and misleading information in Thurston's commentary will at least have accurate information, backed up by research, on which to base their voting decisions.

Thurston's commentary can be found here.

Here's my rebuttal (slightly edited from the original):

Dear Brother Thurston:An acquaintance sent me a copy of your “A Commentary on the Document ‘Six Consequences . . . if Proposition 8 Fails’” and asked for my reaction to it. I read it carefully and found it to be rife with inaccuracies and mischaracterizations. Since you state that the objective of your Commentary is to help our Church avoid being charged with using falsehoods, I assume you would similarly wish to be made aware of falsehoods in your Commentary.

Curriculum Vitae: You are not listed as a member of the J. Reuben Clark Law School adjunct faculty. This is either an erroneous omission by the law school’s Web site or an inaccuracy both in your Commentary and on your personal Web site. Either way, I assume you will want to correct the error.

Item 1: You correctly point out that the statute cited in the anonymous “Six Consequences” document does not require schools to teach that same-sex marriage is just as good as traditional marriage. However, you incorrectly assert that California Education Code section 51933 (the statute that should have been cited in the document) also does not impose such a requirement. In support of your assertion you cite the provisions of section 51933 that require age-appropriate, medically accurate instruction and teaching of “respect for marriage and committed relationships.” However, you omit to mention the following language in the statute: “Instruction and materials shall be appropriate for use with pupils of all… sexual orientations…. Instruction and materials may not reflect or promote bias against any person on the basis of any category protected by Section 220” (which includes sexual orientation). If Proposition 8 were to be defeated, this language would unquestionably be construed to require that classroom instruction on the subject of marriage portray same-sex marriage as equal in every way to traditional marriage.

You cite section 51933’s exemption of church-owned schools, as if that option were widely available. In reality, the percentage of California families who are able to send their children to church-owned elementary and secondary schools is tiny. The rest of us, who have no choice but to send our children to public schools that are supported with our tax dollars, have no recourse against this government-mandated ideological indoctrination. Already in Massachusetts, where this downward moral spiral is well under way, parents have been told that their children will be indoctrinated in pro-homosexual ideology and will not be excused from the indoctrination, and have been arrested when they attempted to interfere with the brainwashing. [See Video] The great weight that your Commentary purports to place upon “respect for the beliefs of others” is ironic given that “disrespect” would not even begin to describe the mistreatment to which government-run schools will subject parents and children who are morally opposed to homosexuality if Proposition 8 does not pass.

Item 2: You assert that the New Jersey Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association case does not support the proposition that churches may lose their tax-exemption as a consequence of refusing to allow same-sex marriage ceremonies to be performed in their facilities. You observe that the OGCMA case was about loss of property tax exemption rather than income tax exemption, falsely implying that denial of a religious organization’s property tax exemption would not be as serious an infringement of its First Amendment liberties as would a denial of its income tax exemption.

You falsely state that the facility at issue in the OGCMA case was open to unrestricted use by the public: “Bands play there. Children skateboard through it. Tourists enjoy the shade. It’s even been used for debates and Civil War re‐enactments.” In support of this assertion you cite what appears to be a slightly different version of your Commentary posted on a pro-same-sex-marriage Web site, or else that article is just coincidentally very similar to your Commentary. In either event, you cite no source for the quoted language. In reality, the facility at issue is used seven days a week for worship services, Bible school, gospel music, and band concerts, all of which OGCMA considers instrumental to the fulfillment of its religious mission and purpose (Declaration of Scott Rasmussen in Support of Motion for Protective Order, OGCMA v. Vespa-Papaleo, D.N.J. Case No. 3:07-cv-03802 (“Rasmussen Decl.”), ¶¶ 11-15). OGCMA has permitted the Boardwalk Pavilion to be used for heterosexual weddings (id. at ¶ 17), but insists that all uses of OGCMA facilities conform to moral standards promulgated by the Methodist Church, which condemns homosexual behavior (id. at ¶ 18).

You appear not to appreciate the gravity of the First Amendment infringement in the OGCMA case when you assert that it is “sensible” for a government agency to deny tax-exempt status to a church that refuses to permit behavior on its premises that is inimical to its religious doctrines. You point out that OGCMA “could discriminate if they ceased to claim a property tax exemption,” as if this would somehow resolve the constitutional issue. You advise: “It is important to note that this ruling pertained only to the pavilion, which constituted a mere one percent of the property the OGCMA owned. The total amount of additional tax assessed was $200.” Apparently by this you mean to imply that if the denial of a church’s constitutional rights only costs the church $200 per year, there is no harm done.

You go on to state that “to your knowledge” the LDS Church has never taken advantage of a property tax exemption. In fact, all churches are automatically exempt from property tax in all 50 states. The New York Times reports that “beyond the federal income tax exemption they share with all nonprofit groups, houses of worship have long been granted an exemption from local property taxes in every state” (Diana B. Henriques, “As Exemptions Grow, Religion Outweighs Regulation,” N.Y. Times (October 8, 2006)). New Jersey law, for example, expressly exempts from property tax “all buildings actually used in the work of associations and corporations organized exclusively for religious purposes, including religious worship…” (N.J.S.A. 54:4-3.6). The California Constitution similarly exempts from property tax “Buildings, land on which they are situated, and equipment used exclusively for religious worship” (Cal. Const., Art. XIII, § 3(f)). It is inconceivable that the LDS Church would not be taking full advantage of all tax exemptions to which it is legally entitled, and it is certain that the Church would suffer an enormous economic loss if they were revoked or denied.

Constitutional law professor Douglas W. Kmiec says: “The endgame of gay activists is to strip the Boy Scouts (and by extension, any other organization that morally opposes gay marriage) of its tax-exempt status under both federal and state law…. For technical legal reasons, it is difficult to challenge a religious group's non-profit status in federal court, but state court is more open. There, judicial decisions approving same-sex marriage or even state laws barring discrimination can be used to pronounce any opposing moral or religious doctrine to be ‘contrary to public policy.’ So declared, it would be short work for a state attorney general's opinion to deny the tax-exempt status of charities and most orthodox Jewish, Christian and Islamic religious bodies. If enough state lawyers do this, expect the IRS to chime in” (Douglas W. Kmiec, “If gays marry, churches could suffer,” The Chicago Tribune (May 26, 2006), reproduced here).

Item 3: You assert that Catholic Charities “voluntarily” stopped providing adoption services in Massachusetts. This does violence to the meaning of the word “voluntary,” given the opening paragraph of the newspaper article you cite, which states: “Archbishop Sean P. O'Malley and leaders of Catholic Charities of Boston announced yesterday that the agency will end its adoption work, deciding to abandon its founding mission, rather than comply with state law requiring that gays be allowed to adopt children” (Patricia Wen, “Catholic Charities to halt adoptions over issue involving gays," Boston Globe (March 11, 2006). A religious organization’s decision to cease providing badly-needed social services that are part of its core mission in order to avoid being legally compelled to violate its fundamental doctrines can hardly be called “voluntary.”

You point out that LDS Family Services still provides adoption services in Boston, as if this canceled out the fact that Catholic Charities has been prevented from doing so. You also point out that LDSFS handles only voluntary adoptions while Catholic Charities handles non-voluntary adoptions, which only serves to highlight that Catholic Charities was filling a critical need by serving the most difficult-to-place children, a need that is now going unmet (Michael Levenson, “Workers rush to fill void left by Boston agency's decision,” Boston Globe (March 11, 2006).

Your implication that by handling only voluntary adoptions LDSFS will shield itself from being sued for refusing to place children with same-sex couples is refuted by the Butler v. Adoption Profiles, LLC case, in which a private, Internet-based adoption agency was forced to cease posting profiles of Californians because it had refused to post the profile of a same-sex couple (“Settlement frees up Adoption Profiles to continue helping families,” Alliance Defense Fund Press Release (May 22, 2007)). And, by the way, it doesn’t matter that the Butler case was not based on the California Supreme Court’s same-sex marriage ruling. The point is that those who seek to normalize same-sex relationships have already resorted to litigation to coerce acquiescence by those who resist on moral grounds, and they will only be further encouraged to do so if Proposition 8 is not passed.

You assert that redefining marriage to include same-sex couples will have no impact on adoptions in California because the state’s domestic partnership laws already give same-sex couples the same rights as married couples. Suffice it to say that there is a strong consensus among legal experts in this field, on both sides of the same-sex marriage issue, that elevating same-sex marriage to the level of a constitutional right will result in multifarious new infringements of religious liberty on many fronts, including in the area of adoption services. See Barbara Bradley Hagerty, “When Gay Rights and Religious Liberties Clash,” National Public Radio (June 16, 2008); Maggie Gallagher, “Banned in Boston: The coming conflict between same-sex marriage and religious liberty,” The Weekly Standard (May 15, 2006); Peter Steinfels, “Will Same-Sex Marriage Collide With Religious Liberty?,” New York Times (June 10, 2006); Heritage Foundation, Panel Discussion Transcript: “Same-Sex Marriage and the Fate of Religious Liberty” (May 22, 2006).

Item 4: You dismiss the suggestion that sectarian colleges and universities may be required to offer married student housing to same-sex couples because one case involved a non-sectarian school that received state and federal funding. You further assert that “the gay marriage problem will not arise” at LDS universities “because engaging in homosexual activity is a violation of the honor code and is a basis for expulsion from the University.” Neither of your rationales would appear valid in light of the Doe v. California Lutheran High School Association case, in which a church-owned school was sued for enforcing its code of conduct by suspending two students who allegedly violated that code by engaging in a same-sex relationship (Alliance Defense Fund, “Christian school sued for following its principles,” September 11, 2007). Although the court held in the school’s favor, the religious organization that runs the school was forced to retain lawyers in order to fend off this attack on its right to set its own standards of eligibility and conduct (see my discussion of Item 6, below).

You assert that California domestic partnership laws already guarantee equal access to family housing, but that (so far) no private religious school has been forced to comply with the law. This overlooks the very high probability that a radical redefinition of marriage will trigger all kinds of things that have never happened before, including challenges to sectarian colleges’ housing policies. Again, your confidence that constitutional recognition of same-sex marriage will not change anything is not shared by experts knowledgeable in this field (see sources cited above).

Item 5: You deny that any minister in Canada has been “convicted of a crime” for preaching against same-sex marriage. Of course, the “Six Consequences” document did not say ministers may be “convicted of crimes.” It said they “may be sued for hate speech and risk government fines.” In fact, ministers in Canada have been sued and subjected to monetary penalties and governmental infringement of their religious liberties for preaching against same-sex marriage. A Catholic bishop in Calgary was the target of complaints filed with the Alberta Human Rights Commission because he issued a pastoral letter that urged Catholics to oppose same-sex marriage (“Calgary bishop defiant about gay marriage views,” Canadian Press (Mar. 31 2005). An Alberta pastor, also the target of a complaint filed with the Alberta Human Rights Commission, was ordered to never again publicly express his religious belief that homosexuality is immoral and was required to pay $5,000 to the complainant as “damages for pain and suffering” (“Government to pastor: Renounce your faith!” WorldNet Daily (June 9, 2008). A Human Rights Commission complaint was also filed against a Catholic priest for quoting from the Bible, the Catholic Catechism, and papal encyclicals (Bob Unruh, “Priest investigated for quoting Bible,” WorldNet Daily (June 5, 2008).

Your citation of the Owens case and the Good News Employee Association case does not support your position. Although the Owens case did not involve a minister, it clearly involved a prosecution of religious expression under a hate crime statute. That the lower court’s decision was eventually overturned on appeal is undoubtedly cold comfort to Mr. Owens, who had to endure the ordeal and expense of defending against a criminal prosecution. The Good News Employee Assn. case was decided against the employee plaintiffs on the ground that the government employer’s interest in maintaining the efficient operation of the office gave it qualified immunity (Good News Employee Ass'n v. Hicks, 223 Fed. Appx. 734, 735 (9th Cir. 2007)). Obviously this fact situation is not analogous to a minister being penalized for preaching, and this case has no bearing on the issue raised in the “Six Consequences” document.

Item 6: You assert that any litigation that may be triggered by the redefinition of marriage will not result in additional costs to anyone because legalized same-sex marriage will bring a net influx of revenue into California. This makes no sense unless you assume that everyone who will be negatively impacted by litigation costs related to same-sex marriage will receive an offsetting benefit of additional revenue generated by a rash of same-sex marriage ceremonies. That assumption is patently untrue.

You assert that changing the definition of marriage will not precipitate a “cascade of lawsuits” because domestic partners already have all the rights of married couples in California. This ignores the enormous difference between legislatively conferring specific benefits and radically redefining the most fundamental unit of society. There is a broad consensus among legal experts that working through the countless details of defining the impact of that redefinition upon society will inevitably generate a flood of litigation for years to come. See Roger Severino, Legalizing gay marriage will spark lawsuits against churches,” San Francisco Examiner (April 7, 2008); Deborah Bulkeley, “Shurtleff backs delay on same-sex ruling,” Deseret News (May 31, 2008); Maggie Gallagher, “Banned in Boston: The coming conflict between same-sex marriage and religious liberty,” The Weekly Standard (May 15, 2006); Urofsky, L. & Finkelman, P., A March of Liberty: A Constitutional History of the United States, “Same-sex Marriages,” Oxford University Press (2004). The cost of this litigation to the parties who are sued will likewise be enormous, and will in many cases be passed on to consumers.

Claims have already been asserted against providers of various kinds of services who have refused to serve same-sex couples. You argue that these claims do not support the points in the “Six Consequences” document because they were not based on the California Supreme Court’s same-sex marriage ruling. I disagree. I believe the reality is that with litigation already flourishing as same-sex couples seek to assert their perceived rights, a radical change to the definition of marriage will only serve to multiply that litigation exponentially.

Your assertion that there are no “activist judges” on the California Supreme Court is absurd. An assessment of a judge’s judicial philosophy is based on his or her decisions and the basis for them. His résumé and the political party affiliation of the governor who appointed him are immaterial. Four justices of the California court, in an unprecedented abuse of raw judicial power, arrogantly presumed to redefine the most fundamental institution of human society, and in the process trampled the democratic process and nullified the votes of millions of California voters, as pointed out by Justice Baxter in his dissenting opinion. Justice Baxter lamented: “But a bare majority of this court, not satisfied with the pace of democratic change, now abruptly forestalls that process and substitutes, by judicial fiat, its own social policy views for those expressed by the People themselves. Undeterred by the strong weight of state and federal law and authority, the majority invents a new constitutional right, immune from the ordinary process of legislative consideration. The majority finds that our Constitution suddenly demands no less than a permanent redefinition of marriage, regardless of the popular will.” In re Marriage Cases, 43 Cal. 4th 757, 863-864, (2008) (Baxter, J., dissenting).

In fabricating a rationale to support the result it wanted to reach, the bare, four-person majority first “greased the skids” by holding – for the first time – that “sexual orientation” constitutes a “suspect classification,” which automatically stacks the deck against the validity of the California marriage statute adopted by the 61% of California voters who passed Proposition 22. In reaching this ground-breaking holding, which is contrary to the decisions reached in all but one other jurisdiction that has considered this issue, the court summarily dispensed with the long-standing requirement that a characteristic be “immutable” (i.e., inborn and unchangeable) in order to qualify for “suspect classification” status. Of course, the court had to disregard this requirement, because there is no scientific evidence that same-gender attraction is an “immutable” characteristic. In addition, the court simply assumed without any evidentiary basis that sexual orientation “bears no relation to a person’s ability to perform or contribute to society,” which is another well-established precondition to acquiring “suspect classification” status. In other words, the court took it for granted that same-sex marriage is as beneficial as traditional marriage is to society at large and especially to children, whose welfare is the primary purpose of marriage. The court refused to even consider the abundant evidence that children are much worse off when they are not raised by both their biological mother and their biological father (Maggie Gallagher & Joshua K. Baker, “Do Mothers and Fathers Matter? The Social Science Evidence on Marriage and Child Well-Being,” Institute for Marriage and Public Policy, February 27, 2004; Kristin Anderson Moore, Ph.D., Susan M. Jekielek, M.A., and Carol Emig, M.P.P., “Marriage from a Child’s Perspective: How Does Family Structure Affect Children, and What Can We Do about It?,” Child Trends (June 2002); Timothy J. Dailey "Homosexual Parenting: Placing children at risk" (2002); Trayce Hansen, “Love Isn’t Enough: 5 Reasons Why Same-Sex Marriage Will Harm Children”; Glenn T. Stanton, “Why Children Need Father-Love and Mother-Love,” Parts 1 & 2, Focus on the Family; Glenn T. Stanton, “Are Same-sex Families Good for Children?,” Focus on the Family; “Comparing the Lifestyles of Homosexual Couples to Married Couples,” Family Research Council; “Questions and Answers: What's Wrong With Letting Same-Sex Couples 'Marry'?,” Family Research Council; Jane Chastain, “Trophy children,” WorldNetDaily, February 21, 2002).

There has never been a more egregious example of judicial activism that the effrontery of these four judges. In the words of J. Reuben Clark Law School Professor Lynn Wardle, it was an “act of arrogance seldom matched in American legal history” (Carrie A. Moore, “Gay marriage would have long-term societal impacts,” Deseret News (Aug. 23, 2008)). Your admiring summary of Ronald George’s life story, and of the poignant mental processes he went through on his way to deciding to destroy marriage as we know it, is touching but completely irrelevant to whether the court’s decision was a shameful example of rampant judicial activism.

Appendix: Based on my correspondence with you, I understand that you continue to believe your arguments are valid, despite the counterarguments detailed above. You also believe that it is permissible for a faithful Latter-day Saint to actively oppose Proposition 8. Despite the direction of the First Presidency that all Church members should use their "best efforts" to support and promote Proposition 8, you have chosen to use your best efforts to undermine it with fallacious arguments and inaccurate information.

I think it is shameful that you disguise your true motives by couching your Commentary in terms calculated to deceive readers – particularly Church members – into believing that you are a loyal Church member whose only intent is to help the Church by correcting inaccuracies. Many enemies of the Church are now circulating and using your Commentary as a weapon against the Church and against Proposition 8, misguidedly touting your status as a BYU law professor to give it increased credibility that it does not deserve. Your Commentary is not only serving to mislead people about the merits of Proposition 8 but, I believe, it is also helping to undermine some Church members’ faith and confidence in Church leaders. If your objective was truly “to be of service” to the Church, I believe that quite the opposite has occurred.

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Video of the Day: Same-sex marriage doesn't hurt anyone, right?

PreservingMarriage.org just released seven new videos - so I'll be posting one a day for this week.

The first one addresses the question, "I don’t see how same sex marriage really hurts anyone else. Really, what’s the harm?"



For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com/

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Agreeing to disagree

There's been much back-and-forth debate in the comments section lately. Some of the No on 8'ers have been really respectful and thoughtful in their comments, and I appreciate that. Others have been spiteful and attacking, and that detracts from the spirit of this blog. To them, I request the same tolerance, respect and understanding that they ask of us.

The intent of this blog is to provide information for our fellow Yes on 8'ers or to give undecided people a source of information and opinion as to why we support Proposition 8 - not to convince No on 8 people that they're wrong. Many, if not most, of us bloggers have close loved ones who are gay.

I've talked with one gay friend at length about Prop. 8, and ultimately, we have to agree to disagree. We come from vastly different perspectives on the issue - but, in the end, we also respect the other's view and appreciate that we can have enlightening conversations on the subject and still remain friends.

I know that I will never change his mind - nor would I even try! I respect his right to follow the dictates of his conscience. I love my gay friends, and I want every happiness for them. They're amazing, amazing people. But I, too, have the right to follow the dicates of my conscience, and I support Prop. 8 - on sociological grounds as well as religious reasons.

Please respect my right to this as well as that right of the other bloggers on here. The fight for tolerance and equality should extend to tolerance and equal voice for those of us favoring Prop. 8.

Meanwhile, I finally got a chance to watch Deb Stapley's wonderful video on YouTube - go check it out! While clicking around, I found this video by Jeff, an old friend of mine. Jeff joined the ranks of the marrieds a few years back and has a darling family. I wanted to share what he's said via YouTube about agreeing to disagree on Proposition 8, as it echoes some of my feelings:




For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com/

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Prop. 8 reaffirms the voice of the people - a letter

My friend Karly posted this excellent OC Register letter to the editor on her blog - I can't find the letter's link, but I wanted to repost the text here. This is by D. Lew of Laguna Beach:

I believe in human rights. I believe in civil liberty. I believe that no government or law of man has the right to compel anyone or any entity to perform any act or service contrary to his own beliefs as long as his beliefs does not constitute harm to others. This is the reason why I will vote yes on Prop. 8.

Prop. 8 will reaffirm the voice of the people in California that marriage is between a man and a woman. And those four activist judges in San Francisco cannot and should not be the voice of the populous overwhelmingly passed what was then Prop. 22 in the year 2000. Preserving the definition of traditional marriage is important for California and good for our society.

I am not prejudice. I respect individual rights and the freedom of choice. I have neighbors who are gay. They are good and decent people. I respect their rights to choose. I accept them as what they are. I don't impose my values on them and they don't impose their values on me. But if Prop. 8 does not pass, the law will demand their values be imposed on me. All businesses, all entities and all of us will be compelled by law to treat all marriages without distinction. The schools in California will be compelled to teach children and that children must accept that same-sex marriage is the same as traditional marriage. Any child does not accept all marriages are same would be construed as breaking the law. Churches will be forced to perform same-sex marriages even if that is contrary to the church's position. Churches would not be able to use their doctrinal beliefs to defend their positions.

The opponents viewed this as another scare tactic. I wish this is only a scare tactic but it is the truth. It is happening in states such as Massachusetts where same-sex marriage is legalized. Passing of Prop. 8 will protect individual liberty, protect our schools from mandatory teaching same-sex marriage to our children and protect our churches from performing marriages contrary to their doctrine.

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com/

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Prop. 8 thoughts from an education expert

The following thoughts are by Don Sedgwick, a longtime school board member and expert on California education - thanks, Don, for letting us share your thoughts!

For me, Proposition 8 is not about denying rights to same-sex couples--I am for them! The government re-defining marriage goes much further for me, as a parent, as a person of faith, and as a school board member. My concerns are two:

1) The CA Ed. Code Section 51933 includes instruction to primary grades students (Kindergarten-3rd grade) regarding marriage. Unless Prop. 8 passes, teachers will be forced to teach that same sex marriage is the same as heterosexual marriage, as has been done in Massachusetts, where parents who simply wanted to pull their child out of school during the period of instruction that taught gay marriage, was denied the ability to do so by the courts (details of the court case attached). The "No on 8" campaign recently played ads saying that it was a lie to suggest kids would be taught differently. During the same week as those ads, the S.F. Chronicle reported that a first grade class in S.F. took a field trip to observe a same-sex wedding.

2) Separation of Church and State: Attached are details of a court case where the courts stripped a Methodist camp of its tax-exempt status for not allowing a same-sex couple to use their property for a wedding. Similar comments included are about the Catholic Charities being forced to offer adoptive babies to same sex couples even when neither the birth mother nor the church wanted to do it. Catholic Charities, who runs the adoptive services, has pulled out of Massachussetts. Similar to a California physician recently being forced by the courts to implant an embryo in a same sex couple when he preferred to refer the couple to another physician.

In summary, I have nothing against honoring all the rights for same sex couples.

I am concerned on two fronts.

One, what will be taught to children. Even in most of the Scandinavian countries that have honored same-sex unions for years, they draw the line by not allowing it to be taught to kids until the children turn 18 years old.

Two, the government blurring the boundaries of separation of church and state. When the government begins telling people by force and threat what they need to believe (and using the hammer of tax status or lawsuits to accomplish it), we are becoming less free, and less American. Public schools and other government agencies are supposed to provide refuge from being forced to believe a certain way (free from either liberal or conservative agendas). And, churches and synagogues must be left to practice their faith without undue government influence.

The S.F. courts who voted 4-3 to overrule the vote of 61 percent of the people in California in the year 2000 (prop.22) overstepped their bounds. Dozens of other state supreme courts have rightly voted that same-sex marriage and domestic partnerships can each share rights, but should not be defined as the same. Vote yes on Prop. 8.

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Why one gay couple supports Prop. 8

While going through my Google alerts, I found this letter written by John and Robert, a gay couple who support Prop. 8 because they choose to affirm their families' beliefs and oppose the disrespect shown by some in the GLBT community that openly mock the religious beliefs of others.

I post only part - for the rest, see http://www.californiaconservative.org/liberals/gay-men-support-prop-8/

The backlash we face is significant, but the activists never thought about this.

Churches have a RIGHT to worship in peace as they choose. NOBODY has a right to disrupt, intimidate, protest, or disrespect these services, no matter what their agenda is.

While I may not agree with many of the Church’s doctrines and teachings, out of respect and tolerance I remain humble, quiet, and respectful during the proceedings.

I take great offense to anyone in MY community who demands the “right” to get married, yet thinks nothing of trampling the rights of others to worship in peace as they choose and believe.

Proposition 8 has forced us and others like us to make a choice: A choice between “going with the flow” and voting as gay men OR protecting our families values, their right to worship in peace, and their right to their religious institutions (like marriage).
We have news for many in our community: When our community condones, supports, or tacitly approves of such baiting tactics, then you can bet we will cross lines. We will protect our families and all the beliefs they hold dear regardless of what mainstream West Hollywood or San Francisco will be doing.

Prior to this ballot measure, we were really indifferent to the whole
matter. However, as voters and as a gay couple it has now gotten personal. We
are now being asked to make a choice between our families and our community.

We have news for all those angry-bitter people in our community; we choose to protect our family from the gay activists who threaten our families’ beliefs and religious institutions. This is a no-brainer.


Please take the time to comment on John and Robert's letter and show them your support - I'm sure they'd appreciate it!

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com/

Denying rights - but whose?

My uncle Jeff wrote this insightful letter to the editor that I'd like to share with you:

In the recent vice presidential debate, both Joe Biden and Sarah Palin declared their support of equal rights for gays and lesbians but opposition to same-sex marriage. Last summer, four Justices of the California Supreme Court decided that equal rights required same-sex-marriage. The difference between Biden/Palin and the Court is the meaning of “equal.” Proposition 8 allows Californians to choose between Biden/Palin’s and the Court’s concept of equal rights.

In an effort to grant rights to some, the Court’s approach runs the danger of denying rights to others. In Canada, it is a crime, “hate speech,” for ministers to teach that God condemns homosexuality. The Catholic Charities in Boston closed rather than comply with a government requirement that the Charities facilitate adoptions by same-sex couples. A Methodist facility in New Jersey lost its tax-exempt status because it refused to celebrate a same-sex civil union on its premises.

Limiting speech, closing religious organizations, and economically penalizing those who reject same-sex marriage is not equal and is destructive of rights. Equal treatment based on respect for our differences is the true expression of equal rights.

This issue is too important to let four people decide. Voting “Yes” on Proposition 8 puts California law back as it was before the Court redefined marriage. Reversing the Court’s ill-advised decision allows further deliberation so that future governmental action does not benefit some at the expense of others.

I have strong personal opinions on the subject of same-sex marriage. Many on both sides of the issue do. That is not the point. The question is how to accommodate persons of differing beliefs so that the rights of all are equally protected. Voting “Yes” on Proposition 8 allows this debate to continue without forcing a premature, one-sided and unequal end to the discussion.

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com/

Friday, October 10, 2008

A sight for sore eyes

Driving home from work tonight, I was treated with this lovely sight, courtesy the Mission Viejo Institute of Religion / Saddleback Young Single Adult Ward of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints:



And who says GenY is apathetic? Keep up the good work, guys!

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com/

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Marriage Matters


Welcome to our blog, Preserving Marriage.

California voters face an important decision this November - one that is more important than who becomes our next president. I'm referring to Proposition 8, a California Constitutional amendment that defines marriage as being between a man and a woman.

There is much misinformation and lack of information regarding Prop. 8. The goal of this blog is to add value to the blogosphere by providing information and insight into this upcoming decision, one with long-lasting and far-reaching consequences which I feel may be overlooked or brushed aside in apathy or tolerance.

Here are some basic facts to consider regarding Prop. 8:
  • Prop. 8 is only 14 words: "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California."

  • These are the same words which were passed by 61 percent of California voters as Prop. 22 back in 2000.

  • Four San Francisco-based judges overturned the vox populi earlier this year.

  • Prop. 8 doesn't take away any rights or benefits from gay or lesbian domestic partners. Under California law, they "shall have the same rights, protections and benefits" as married spouses (Family Code 297.5). Prop. 8 will not change this.

What we're dealing with is a definition - but a definition that affects the family, which is the foundation of our society. I know that, at first glance, this might seem hyperbolic - but I hope to show with facts and figures as well as with feelings why this is, in fact, a critical step toward preserving the family as well as religious liberty and freedom of speech, two cornerstones upon which America was founded.

Please feel free to engage in discussion here. All I ask is that you maintain respect and civility. Some of my closest friends disagree with me on Prop. 8. They are entitled to their opinions every bit as much as I am entitled to mine.

I've had some enlightening conversations regarding Prop. 8 with friends who stand as firmly on the other side of the line, and we've enjoyed hearing each other's perspectives. It enriches and educates everyone. I hope that you will find our blog contributions illuminating and informative as well.

For more information go to http://whatisprop8.com/